This post will be a letter that I’ve written myself going back 11 years as I’m first entering, or getting ready to enter, motherhood.
August 3, 2007
As you sit there frightful of what’s to come please keep in mind that despite all of the hurdles you will come face to face with, you will make it. Motherhood is tough at any age but especially when you’re young and not living with your child’s other parent.
There will be struggles. You will wonder often why you chose to go through this. There will even be times where you question if you’re the best option for your child. I’ll give you a hint, you are. You’re more than enough.
Do not let the daily struggles of motherhood outshine the beauty that is motherhood.
Over the years of being a mom you will face many obstacles, you will be judged for every decision you ever make, and you will question many things but always keep in mind that this child depends on you and needs you to be the best that you can be.
Always take the time to care for yourself. The old saying goes “You can’t pour from an empty cup.” and it’s true. If you completely overwhelm yourself without taking a break to gather yourself, your emotions, and your needs it will be so much tougher on you.
When your child starts school you will cry. You will have a worse first day than she will. That’s okay! It is a part of motherhood that NO ONE tells you about.
When she has a bad day at school you will feel guilty but remember it is not your fault, nor is it hers.
When you bring home her new sibling she will claim to not like you anymore but that will soon change so don’t take it to heart.
When you decide to homeschool because of the many issues she has at school you will question whether or not you will be enough. You will be. She will do amazing all because you chose what you thought was best for her.
When you tell her that you’re pregnant.. again.. she will claim to not like you again but it’s not true. She will come around. I promise.
All in all it will be hard but it will be worth it. Even when you don’t think it possibly could be worth it.
Keep your head up!
Until next time..